Daffodil Surprise

Daffodils at the Allan Gardens
[Photo collage by KPA]

Only a week ago, it was hard to find even potted daffodils. Now, whole fields are in bloom. I thought these daffodils were tulips as I walked by them yesterday. I don't know how they suddenly appeared in this field (park) that I walk by almost daily. The park's gardeners must have spent all day (all night?) planting them to give us this field of surprise. The poem Daffodils is much more suited here than in my original "Daffodils" post.

Daffodils
William Wordsworth

I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.

The waves beside them danced; but they
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:
A poet could not but be gay,
In such a jocund company:
I gazed--and gazed--but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:

For oft, when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.

On a more macabre note, as I looked up "surprise" on dictionary.com, I found the first two lines of Emily Dickinson's short poem Apparently with no Surprise listed under its "famous quotations" section.

Apparently with no Surprise
Emily Dickinson

Apparently with no surprise
To any happy flower,
The frost beheads it at its play,
In accidental power.
The blond assassin passes on.
The sun proceeds unmoved,
To measure off another day,
For an approving God.

Our nice weather girl promises summer-like humidex levels within the next few days (and also promises a "nice hot summer" after the cold and rainy spring we've had so far). Morning frost is no longer part of the spring.

It isn't only spring and daffodils that have prompted me to look up poetry. Here is a post I wrote on (long-gone) winter with a photo of "snow dust," a phrase I used without knowing about Robert Frost's poem Dust of Snow, another short (unexpectedly macabre) poem.

But, let's forget winter (and the macabre). Spring is here.

The Royals Have Nothing on These

                                     Hats at the Kentucky Derby

Sluts and Crybabies

"Proud to be a slut" marchers protest through
downtown Toronto, yet glance disapprovingly
at the girl who is dressed like a slut holding
a poster which says "Proud Slut" (video here)

The ever-industrious Steve Paiken of the current affairs/news program The Agenda (broadcast on Television Ontario) brought together a panel of women (men were notably absent) to discuss the recent Slut Walks, which I blogged about here.

Here is his panel:

- Susannah Breslin is a freelance journalist and blogger from Texas.

- Jaclyn Friedman is the executive director of WAM! (Women, Action and the Media) from Cambridge Massachusetts, and according to web sources a "Queer Jewish writer." Friedman had a weird coy demeanor during the panel discussion, as though she were trying to seduce the viewers. I didn't realize she had the other demographic in mind.

- Gail Dines is a professor of sociology and women's studies at Wheelock College, in Boston and author of Pornland.

- Heather Jarvis is co-founder of The Slut Walk in Toronto.

- Kate McPherson is a professor of history and women's studies at York University, Toronto.

So, in a panel of five women, two are professors of women's studies, one is a director of a clearly feminist agency, one has written a pornographic book (as well as holding a professorship in women's studies), one is the co-founder of The Slut Walk. And finally, one is "queer."

Also, two of the women, Heather Jarvis and the lesbian Jaclyn Friedman, said that they were "sexually assaulted" which in today's scenario could mean anything from a boyfriend thinking "no is yes" after his girlfriend takes him up to her room late at night

The only one who is not defined by her "womanness" according to TVO's biographies, is Susannah Breslin, who is presented as a freelance journalist and blogger (and I would assume - no I will conclude - that she is the least stable financially and "career" wise) although she's now a Forbes blogger (which is no professorship).

And guess who was the one holding the fort against these formidable r-e-s-p-e-c-t (as Hugh Grant would put it) feminists? Yes, the lowly blogger.

The discussion around the feminists revolves around "taking back the word 'slut'" as in those years when women were "taking back the night", and homosexuals "reclaiming queer." Of course, at Breslin's push, the women started to redefine what they meant by "reclaiming" the word "slut." It goes something like this: If some women are called sluts because of the way they dress (and what triggered the whole march in the first place is a police officer's observation that if women wanted to be free from sexual assault, they shouldn't dress like sluts), and if this causes them to be raped, then all women are in solidarity with these sluts, and are sluts themselves, in protest against men raping women who are dressed like sluts.

The funny thing is that none of these women were dressed like sluts on Paiken's show, even Friedman, who does don the attire at her queer/feminist protests. But they have no qualms about naïve, young girls in the avant-garde parading their flesh while holding "slut" signs. So, what part of "slut" are they reclaiming, as Breslin challenges them?

Just before this panel, Paiken held an interview with Anne Kreamer who is the author of the book It's Always Personal: Emotions in the New Workplace. The whole interview was funny (in an embarrassing way) to watch. Kreamer advocates crying in the workplace, and that stiff upper lips are no good. Of course, the majority of work-place-emoters are women, but Kreamer also talks about men who cry, and who felt "cleansed" after the experience. She didn't bother to delineate (at least in the interview, and Paiken never pressed her) what is the incidence of men crying. The reality, of course, is that, women cry more often, and in public. All I can say is that the work place is a kind of a war zone - money, projects, prestige, success - are on the line. The nice guy does finish last. What this translates to, which these women would never admit to, is that women are less suited to this cut-throat environment. There are two solutions to their problem: one is to have fewer women in high-stake positions; the other is to regulate the work force to make it more conducive (nicer) for women workers. So far, the latter is winning.

Kreamer's interview was the perfect introduction to the panel. Despite "rewriting" the word "victim" during the panel, what the women are really saying is that women are victims (weaker, more vulnerable) when it comes to rape, which is often performed by men because they are women. Like the career women, these feminist experts want society to rewrite the reality of the world, make it soft and gentle, so that women can do what they want including dress as sluts (and not be raped).

To catch all the nuances, expressions, vocabulary, explanations and other fascinating aspects of both the panel discussion and the interview, I recommend the two videos from TVO's site:

- Anne Kreamer: Emotions in the New Work Place
- "Slut Walks" and Modern Feminism

New Leaves: II

[Photo by KPA]

New Leaves

[Photo by KPA]

It was an overcast day when I took this photograph yesterday, but it didn't dampen the early leaves of spring. Overcast days are actually ideal for taking photos. Sunlight can interfere through heightened shadow and light regions, making it difficult to take photos.

Speaking Freely Can Get You Convicted of Hate Speech in Denmark

Kurt Westergaard, the Danish cartoonist (left) with Lars Vilks, the Swedish cartoonist (right) both in hiding after threats from Muslims

Lars Hedegaard, President of the International Free Press Society, has been convicted of "[issuing] a pronouncement or other communication by which a group of persons are threatened, insulted or denigrated due to their race, skin colour, national or ethnic origin, religion or sexual orientation."(The quote is from Diana West's website, who has a fuller review of the conviction.)

I met Mr. Hedegaard in 2009 during an International Free Press Society sponsored conference in New York on freedom of speech and how Muslims are transforming Western societies. The conference was held specifically to introduce the Danish Kurt Westergaard, illustrator of the (in)famous Danish cartoons which were a satire on Mohammed and Muslims. Kurt Westergaard, Hedegaard's compatriot, was facing Muslims' ire for his illustrations (cartoons) which they felt demeaned their religion and their prophet. Through his experiences, the hardest of which is his life in hiding from death threats by Muslims (similar to what Geert Wilders is facing in the Netherlands), issues like freedom of speech started to come to the fore of political and public discussions.

Hedegaard is the last person to denigrate people, although he has strong and substantiated views on Muslims, immigration-run-amok in Denmark, and Western values and institutions that are being dismantled or changed (such as freedom of speech) because of immigration, and specifically Muslim immigration. His conviction is more symbolic than anything else. He was fined $1,000 and he plans to appeal.

This (symbolic) conviction is a blessing in disguise. It will put Hedegaard in the news for a while because of his appeals process, and he will be able to reach more people with his views on how Muslims, and Muslim immigration, are transforming Denmark. The more information people get, and the more outrageous cases like Hedegaard's, Westergaard's and Wilders's become public, the truth about Islam and Muslims will be revealed.

Here's more from the International Free Press Society website:

Lars Hedegaard was today [May 3. 2011] found guilty of hate speech under Article 266b of the Danish penal code...

§ 266b of the Danish penal code:

“Whoever publicly or with the intent of public dissemination issues a pronouncement or other communication by which a group of persons are threatened, insulted or denigrated due to their race, skin colour, national or ethnic origin, religion or sexual orientation is liable to a fine or incarceration for up to two years.”

Let Them Wear Hats!

Jacques Vert's Fashion. Good hat design
influences the quality of other attire.

One thing about the royal wedding which is heartening is that perhaps, maybe, people will start to wear hats again. The British royalty has always got the flak for its hat-wearing tradition, but finally I think they have got it right, and people are noticing.

But, often, attention to accessories also translates to improved quality in over all dress. When designers design good hats (or shoes), the rest of the attire has to reflect that. So, this glance at hats that I'm seeing may result with improved dresses, jackets, skirts, blouses, etc.

But back to hats. It is possible to wear an attractive hat (rather than a toque-like woolen affair) even during the coldest parts of the winter. One solution is to work with layers (putting a warm woolen toque under a more attractive hat) which I have done. I've also sewn hats, or around hats. For example, I bought a length of faux fur fabric and simply placed it around a warm woolen (not very attractive) hat to make it look like those Russian fur hats. And adding the same fur around the coat collar ties everything together. The difficult part is how unaccustomed people are around hats. A simple 1920s style hat (in burgundy) which I wear when the temperature is not so low gets surprised reactions (one person said he remembered me because of my hat) from strangers. I hope to break into an orange straw hat for the summer. Someone has to start!

I was at the Bay again since I did receive an invitation to its Jacques Vert collection, which is a permanent collection with seasonal variations. I didn't know it was so substantial, and quite affordable. And quite beautiful too. The sales girl was very obliging, and took me around, describing how it was displayed in sets, mostly of colors, with dresses, skirts, jackets, shoes, purses, and of course hats. (The Jacques Vert on-line store in the U.K. has what looks like a complete display of the items that were in the Bay for the spring/summer season.) I was surprised that the sales girl especially liked a conservative, navy blue set. She looked like she was in her late twenties, early thirties. I've always believed that women (especially the young women we see around in skimpy, ugly, dark "uniforms" who assiduously follow "fashion") actually will take on beauty (and prettiness) if given the chance.

Now, why not dive into color, especially for spring? That's what I told the sales girl, and she confessed to buying a lovely chiffon blouse with orange floral prints (here it is). Then she said she'd wear it with black pants. I didn't want to belabor the point, although I couldn't help pointing out that a cream skirt (already available with the set she was pointing to) might be better. Still, working in a Jacques Vert section, and looking at the clothes, surely gets her to see in the world in colors rather than in black and gray (and navy blue).

Often, a good design, fabric pattern, cut, color, etc., will influence the quality of other items. The dearth (or the eccentricities) of our contemporary fashion is partly because we have no good designs. If the royal wedding gets to promote designers like Jacques Vert, who are affordable but with quality designs, that would be wonderful. I have my doubts, though, and that this attention is the novelty (fashion?) of the moment.

Some welcome things at Jacques Vert are:
- Many of the dresses are floral (and other) prints
- The dresses have longer lengths than the minis I'm seeing these days
- The dresses and skirts come in sets, with jackets, blouses and sweaters
- There was a wide range of colors from subtle pinks to pale greens and brighter oranges and blues
- Shoes and handbags can be co-ordinated with the dresses, and are available on display